Leadership is, as far as I can tell, mostly about being polite, relatively humble, giving credit where credit is due to others, and enabling and encouraging others to voluntarily go above and beyond at the tasks that they’re given. It is also having the sense and will to effectively and appropriately correct for missteps and mistakes along the way. It is not yelling or necessarily being loud. It is not being able to do what you want when you want, as most Americans seem to believe. It requires consistency. It is not being a follower at all, but being able to empathize with followers (really, being able to empathize with other people in general). It’s really a job for nice people who aren’t willing to accept sub-par performance in appropriate fashions and are willing to exercise their authority if they have it. It’s not a job for the capricious, the stupid, the cocky, or the rude. Americans seem to just respond to loudness and unsubstantiated forms of confidence, at least at younger mental ages. It will own you if you don’t own it, and those who get owned by it are not actually true or effective leaders in my estimation.
All of this is taken from my own perspective and experience as a Cadet Platoon Commander (age 14) and Cadet Supply Officer (age 15). Leadership is, in my estimation, one of the most difficult and temperament specific jobs that’s out there. It’s also different across cultures and societies and doing it effectively requires that you alter your tactics depending upon the people or person that you’re working with. To those who do it well, the rewards are in the job itself (although they would also be the first to recognize the financial value that is behind their skills). It’s partially learned, partially innate in the person; not everyone by virtue of their nature, experiences, and interpretations of their experiences are qualified or going to be good leaders. Some people don’t want to be leaders, and voluntarily choose the second, third, or lowest possible role in the social hierarchy.
As for me? I think I can be an effective leader in my own right. The only challenge that I would likely face is the natural learning curve that comes with any job and the need to work essentially with people specifically. People are the leaders’ job, the peoples’ jobs are their own tasks. That would, eventually, drain me over time rather than keep me energized.
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